Meeting Japanese girls is definitely not as easy as meeting other Asian girls. You cannot just pop up in the country and expect to have a girlfriend the day after.
You will need much more time and, in the end, you probably won't end up with a girl as pretty as you had wished. Also, before anything happens in the bedroom, you'll have to show that you are serious, stable and committed.
That does not sound really fun, right?
Now, what if I told you that there is a way to have easy dates with open-minded, young and beautiful Japanese girls, including gravure models and even JAV porn stars?
The secret is to become a member of a social/dating club.
Also called "Kousai club", these are the Japanese equivalent to what we call "Sugar Dating". It allows young Japanese girls to meet and date wealthy older men who can offer them a more luxurious lifestyle.
Also called "Kousai club", these are the Japanese equivalent to what we call "Sugar Dating". It allows young Japanese girls to meet and date wealthy older men who can offer them a more luxurious lifestyle.
In this article, I will introduce you to the most famous dating club in Japan, Universe Club, which is, to my knowledge, the only one to accept foreigners.
Meeting a Japanese Sugar Baby
Before we go any further, let me make this clear from the beginning: Dating clubs like Universe are rather expensive and they are reserved to an elite (businessmen, entrepreneurs, expats, high-level executives, etc).
If you cannot afford to spend between USD200 and USD500 for a date, then they are not for you. In that case, scroll down to the end of this article and I'll give you a few other options to meet Japanese girls.
Another important thing to mention is that this is neither a prostitution or escort service. The girls will not sleep with you if they are not attracted to you. They have the choice to call it a night after dinner and you are not guaranteed anything else but a date.
How to register to Universe Club?
To join Universe Club, you must first register online on the company's website and, from there, you will choose a date for an interview with them.
The interview can take place in Tokyo, or online with Skype. Starting April 1st, 2019, it will also be possible to do it in Singapore. The objective of the interview is to give you explanations on how the system works and to ask about your preferences when meeting a girl. You will also be shown the pictures and profiles of the girls to help you make up your mind.
Once accepted, you will need to choose between 4 types of memberships: Standard Class, Gold Class, Platinum Class and Black Class.
The main difference between classes is that when you select a higher one, you will have a better choice of Japanese girls to meet. In the black class, you can actually date gravure models, fashion models and JAV actresses.
Universe Club currently has over 7,800 girls available, with around 900 new ones per month. That's a rather high number, so even if you are very picky, Gold Class should be enough for most guys. You can always upgrade later if you want.
How to organize a date with Universe Club?
Once you become a member of Universe Club, you will be able to browse through all the girls' profiles and see their bios, photos and movies. Something interesting is that the photos are done by the Universe team so you can be sure there are no fakes and no excessive photoshopping.
If you see a girl that you like, you can request a date. You will receive an answer within 24 hours, and if it is agreed, you will need to pay the setting fee (see above).
How will the date go?
On the girls' profiles, there is a letter A, B, C, D, that indicates her "dating type". Basically, this tells you:
- A: The girl is only looking for a dinner date or light drinks
- B: The girl is open to going back to your hotel after a few dates if she likes you.
- C: The girl is open to going back to your hotel after the first date if she likes you.
- D: The girl is open to going back to your hotel after the first date, as long as you treat her well.
There is no guarantee that you can get an intimate relationship with your Japanese sugar baby, but you still have a pretty clear idea of what to expect. If you choose A or B, you are more likely to meet a potential girlfriend. If you choose C or D, you maximize your chances of getting a one night stand.
My recommendation would be to choose a restaurant inside your hotel for the date. Therefore, after your dinner, you can offer her a drink in your room.
Finally, if you wish to meet your date again, you don't have to go through Universe Club. You can contact her directly and make an arrangement with her that suits both parties.
More information:
Website: Universe Group
Facebook: TokyoAffair
Instagram: Universe Club International
Meeting a Japanese Girls: Other Websites
There are some specialized Japanese dating sites, but I don't recommend them to foreigners. Girls using those usually don't speak English and/or they are only interested in date Japanese guys.
Instead, you should use the famous apps such as:
Tinder
I had a lot of matches on Tinder, but very few girls replied to my messages. When they did, the conversation was limited to a boring chit-chat that always ended when I said I didn't live in Japan.
Still, that's probably the best dating app for foreigners, especially younger ones. You will also match with a few non-Japanese girls as well (tourists and expats).
JapanCupid
This site has around 500 Japanese girls, most of whom are employees or office workers. They are generally looking for a relationship with a foreigner. What I like with this website is that the girls won't mind if you do not live in Japan.
OKCupid
This website doesn't have too many girls, but it is almost free so it doesn't hurt to try. I had a couple of interesting matches there with girls that I met in real life.